characteristics of a mature personality

(from http://www.sriramakrishnamath.org/magazine/vk/2005/12-3-8.asp)

1) He has a thorough knowledge of the workings of his mind; he knows his assets and liabilities.

2) He accepts himself; loves himself; and takes responsibility for himself.

3) He has an optimistic, cheerful but realistic attitude towards life and the world. He suffers neither from superiority nor an inferiority complex.

4) He has a clearly defined philosophy and goal in life and is rational in his thoughts.

5) He has sufficient self-control and is willing to sacrifice his self-interest is order to reach his goal.

6) He constantly strives to improve himself without getting frustrated. Failures only make him more determined.

7) He always tries to see the best in himself and others. He forgives himself and others.

8) He accepts and integrates evil and suffering as part of life and as stepping-stones to a better life.

9) He has a place, a definite routine, for everything in life.

10) He has a keen sense of humour without becoming a buffoon. (As a wag said: 'If we can learn to laugh at ourselves we will never lack entertainment in life!')